Needy men are like....

Seriously, I see them coming, and I run in the other direction... With that being said, don't be surprised when I not longer answer your calls, I've said all I have to say...

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He hit me up recently to "declare his interest". I KNOW it's gonna crash and burn, but what can I say, I love a "gangsta"...

P.S. He's a rapper in one of my FAVORITE HIP HOP groups! If it really is him, it should be an interesting adventure...

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What the hell is wrong with "boys"? Please note, when I say boys, I'm not talking about real men who know what they want... I'm talking about immature guys who misrepresent themselves as "grown men". I just don't get it. Guys ALL the time a dogging women out for being gold-diggers, indecisive, easy, independant, prude, etc., but let's take a step back and REALLY look at the situation for what it's worth.

Remember my friend Mr. L? The guy who took me to the Via Matta (an expensive Italian restuarant)? Well, now, since he took me there, he thinks he owns me. Now, I am supposed to be ready at his beckoned call to just "be avail".... it only took him 3 days to point it out. He and I went out on the Thursday, that weekend I went away to visit my grandma and dad, and by Sunday, the following was in my inbox:

"WHERE IS THE LOVE>? take you on a dateski, and then no love, for "Mr L", i even tried talking to you since then and called you and all that. now im gonna cry. :-( "

Ummmm... I talked to him that Friday morning, and I let him know that I was gonna be 100 miles away visiting my family. Plus, I can't even remember how many times I said thank you, and I really was very appreciative!

With that, I decided maybe I will return the favor and take him out to one of my favorite restuarants, he won't let me, because he doesn't want me to pay. Instead, his suggestion was I take him to Wendy's... WENDY'S!!!! WTF!!!!!! The irony of this whole story is, he didn't even pay when he took me out a few weeks ago, it was a COMPLIMENTARY DINNER FOR TWO!!! But I guess by making the decision to sit down and share a five course meal with a friend, I sold my soul to the DEVIL.... the immature Devil, which is actually worse than the real one (because he has a Wendy's fetish apparently).

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